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Family Splits and Forms Two Households

Use this process in the event of divorce or separation, whether or not children are involved.

  • You'll need the Edit Individual permission.
  1. Locate the record of the family head or spouse, then click his or her name.
  2. Click the ellipsis icon and select Separate Household.
  3. Update each individual record with any changes resulting from the separation.
  4. Any children or others who are part of the family are listed under the main individuals. Select which family to link each child with. For dual custody, you can check both families, but then select a Primary Family.
  5. Click Save.

Primary Family Member Marries

Use this process when an adult congregant marries or remarries.

  • You'll need the Edit Individual permission.
  1. In the top-left corner, click your ministry hub then Realm. Then click Profiles > All Profiles > People.
  2. If one of the marriage partners does not yet have a record, add him or her in a new family first, then proceed to the next step.
  3. Locate the record of the family head or spouse, then click his or her name.
  4. Click the ellipsis icon and select Get Married.
  5. Update the individual's record with any changes resulting from the marriage.
  6. Click Save.
  7. If the marriage brings new children, locate the record again and add a family member.

Congregant Marked "Child" Marries

Use this process when someone whose profile has the family position of "child" gets married.

  • You'll need the Edit Individual permission.
  1. In the top-left corner, click your ministry hub then Realm. Then click Profiles > All Profiles > People.
  2. If one of the marriage partners does not yet have a record, add him or her in a new family first, then proceed to the next step.
  3. Locate the child's record, then click his or her name.
  4. Click the ellipsis icon and select Get Married.
  5. Update the individual's record with any changes resulting from the marriage.
  6. Click Save.
  7. If the marriage brings new children, locate the record again and add a family member.

Child in Multiple Families becomes Adult

Use this process when someone whose profile has the family position of "child" in multiple families becomes an adult.

  • You'll need the Edit Individual permission.

There's no technical reason you can't have adults in a family who maintain the family position of "child". However, in cases of joint custody, you might want to link that person with a single family when they become an adult.

  1. Locate and open the child's record.
  2. Click Edit.
  3. Click Personal Information.
  4. For Family Position, change Child to Other.
    A note displays. Upon saving the record, the individual will be linked only with the primary (custodial) family and deleted from all others.

Child in Multiple Families is Removed from One

Use this process when someone whose profile has the family position of "child" is removed from one of their families.

  • You'll need the Edit Individual permission.

Suppose a child is in two families, both of whom are associated with your church. Then, one family assumes complete custody. You can quickly remove the child from the other family's profiles.

  1. Locate and open the child's record.
  2. On the right side of the page, locate the family you want to remove from the child's record.
  3. Click the ellipsis icon and select Remove from this family. The option is only visible when you hover over the family's listing and only for the child's non-primary families.
  4. Click Yes to confirm.

Family Member Leaves for Other Reasons

  • You'll need the Edit Individual permission.
  1. Locate and open the individual's record.
  2. Click the ellipsis icon and select Change Household.
  3. Enter the new, target household.
  4. Update the moving-individual's contact information.
  5. Click Save.